The Light BDSM List of Kinks & Fetishes Explained
Get ready for an exciting and enlightening journey into the world of fetishes! We’ve meticulously gathered a fabulous list of 72 distinct fetishes, complete with their detailed definitions. This collection is quite the treasure trove of information, so we’ve cleverly organized the kinks into specific categories, making it easier for you to browse through and discover new interests.
For many of these playful kinks, you’ll also find convenient links to explore more in-depth discussions and resources right here at Ms. Kristy’s! We truly strive to offer a comprehensive guide, but if you notice that we’ve overlooked your favorite fetish, don’t be shy—please drop it in the comments section! Your contributions will help us enhance this resource even further, making it more fabulous for everyone who seeks to learn and indulge in the rich diversity of fetishes.
There are three primary types of fetishes:
Partialism: refers specifically to erotic fetishism for body parts that are not usually considered sexual.
Objectophilia: When a person’s fetish involves sexual feelings towards an object, and in some cases romantic feelings as well.
Hygrophilia: being turned on by bodily fluids, usually one in particular.
The fascinating world of fetishes is a delightful playground! Kinks often overlap or dance around categories, making it a wonderful challenge to pin them down. Along with the main fetish types, we’ve whipped up some fun groupings for our extensive kink catalog, featuring clothing, role play, sensation, and oh-so-taboo delights!
Browse through the full list of fetishes, or use the links below to skip to a specific type of kink.
Body Part Fetishes (Partialism)
Body Related Fetishes
Bodily Fluid Fetishes (Hygrophilia)
Clothing, Costume, and Fabric Fetishes
Object Fetishes (Objectophilia)
People & Role-play Fetishes
Sensation Fetishes
Partialism Fetishes: Kinks for Body Parts
Body Part Fetishes (Partialism)
1. Armpit Fetish (maschalagnia)
The scent, the sweat, the hair, and vulnerability are all aspects of the armpit fetish. To some an armpit is on the same level as a vagina – a secret cave of desire so kissable, and yes, even fuckable.
2. Belly Button Fetish (alvinophilia)
Attraction to the human navel is pretty much the basis of the belly button fetish. Tickling, kissing, licking, and drinking shots of whiskey from the belly button are all possibilities. Innie or outie? The human navel, or belly button, has long been a source of fascination and attraction for many. The belly button fetish is rooted in this allure, with a range of intimate activities possible, from tickling and kissing to more unconventional acts like licking or even drinking from this unique bodily feature. Whether an “innie” or an “outie”, the belly button holds a certain mystique that captivates those drawn to this particular form of sensual exploration.
Some individuals have a strong preference for larger penises, while others take this desire to an even more extreme level, developing a fetish where nothing else will suffice. Additionally, some people’s fetishes are more specific, such as a fixation on large black penises. Conversely, the opposite end of this spectrum is the small penis fetish, also known as SPH.
Some folks just can’t help but appreciate a nice ass! They might find themselves grinning and daydreaming about those lovely curves. This lighthearted admiration definitely adds some fun during playful times, and who knows—it might even spark some laughs and good vibes!. Read: Ass Fetish: 8 Ass Play Ideas to Enjoy
5. Eyeball Licking Fetish (oculolinctus)
Eyeball licking, a unique and intimate act, taps into the vulnerability and trust between partners. The sensation of a tongue gently caressing the eye’s delicate surface can be both thrilling and deeply intimate. For some, the act of being the “licker” holds a particular allure, as it requires a profound level of trust and connection with one’s partner. Exploring this sensual kink can be a profound way to deepen intimacy and push the boundaries of physical and emotional vulnerability. Read: Oculolinctus: Eyeball Licking Fetish
6. Fat Fetish
Fat fetishism refers to being attracted to people who are overweight or obese. This attraction often increases with the person’s size, and for some individuals, larger sizes are preferred. Within fat fetishism, there are specific interests like feederism, gaining, stuffing, and padding. A strong preference for larger women may be referred to as a BBW fetish.
Foot fetishism is probably one of the most popular kinks on our list, and people with this fetish are lucky enough to get a peek at women’s feet almost anywhere they go. Some simply lust after the soles of a woman’s foot or desire to kiss and lick some dainty toes. For others, their foot fetish veers into BDSM territory, where worshiping at the feet of a Mistress or Master is a form of submission. Read: Foot Fetish: A Guide to Foot Kinks & Play
A fetish for freckles is based on arousal to people with freckles, or simply the freckles themselves. The interest might be in the patterns made by various moles and freckles, or the beauty of “imperfection”. Remember Marilyn Monroe’s iconic mole? I’m sure it was a source of excitement for more than a few men. Was that beauty mark even real though?
Hand fetishes, while less common than foot fetishes, do exist. Hands play a significant role in various sexual activities, including handjobs, touching, and spanking. A person with a hand kink may be particularly attracted to fingers or palms, or they might find it stimulating to observe hands engaged in different tasks, even non-sexual ones. Curious to learn more? See Hand Fetish and Arousal: Cheirophilia
10. Hairy Fetish (trichophilia)
Although women often remove body hair, some men find hairy women highly attractive. This “hirsute fetish” is all about appreciating the feel, smell, and look of body hair. And it’s not just limited to women – many people also find hairier men, sometimes called “bears” in the LGBTQ+ community, to be the epitome of masculinity. For some, the attraction is more about head hair than body hair. Read more about the kink for hair: Hair Fetish: What Is Trichophilia All About?
Some fetishes on our extensive list revolve around the idea of “bigger is better.” The labia, which consist of the labia minora and labia majora, are central to this fetish. Individuals with a large labia fetish often prefer labia minora that extend beyond the outer labia, appreciating their prominence. Others enjoy the appearance and sensations from pussy pumping, a technique used to enhance size. This interest may connect to broader themes of body positivity, acceptance, and the diversity of human anatomy.
12. Nails Fetish (onychophilia)
A kink for long nails is not surprising considering how many women cultivate and display long, painted nails. However, a fingernail or toenail fetish could also be for unvarnished nails in their natural state. A person with a nail fetish may be aroused by the nails themselves or could be more interested in feeling those nails scratching down their back. This would be the distinction between onychophilia and amychophilia.
A nose fetish often involves a strong preference for specific shapes or sizes of noses, as well as an interest in nostrils and their stimulation. In BDSM practices, there is a form of Japanese nose torture or humiliation that utilizes a hook. Some people may also be attracted to activities like nose licking or nasolingus.
14. Pubic Hair Fetish (pubephilia)
A kinkster with pubephilia finds pubic hair particularly appealing, whether it’s a full bush, a well-groomed landing strip, or even a playful patch. This specific attraction is often rooted in the natural beauty and individuality that pubic hair represents. The presence of pubic hair can enhance a person’s unique scent, contributing to a more intoxicating experience, and add an element of intrigue and allure to intimate areas. Many believe that the texture, appearance, and even scent of pubic hair can heighten arousal and create deeper connections during intimate moments, making it a significant aspect of their sexuality.
15. Stomach Fetish (alvinolagnia)
The midsection of a woman’s body often attracts attention in various social and cultural contexts. Many women enhance this area with accessories like belly chains, intriguing piercings, and stylish cropped tops. This focus on a specific body part reflects societal trends and personal expressions of beauty. It’s interesting to see how this varies across cultures and fashion movements, influencing how women present themselves to the world.
16. Tail Fetish
A tail fetish, also known as vestigiality fetish, varies widely among individuals. Some are attracted to the sleek appearance of reptilian tails, while others prefer the playful appeal of fur, often engaging in furry communities. Temporary tails can enhance the experience through clips or stylish attachments. Butt plugs designed with tails have also gained popularity, amplifying sensations and aesthetics. Tail fetishes often intersect with pet play, enriching exploration and enjoyment for those embracing their fantasies and desires.
17. Teeth Fetish (odontophilia)
A fetish for teeth can take many forms. Some people may find themselves attracted to unusual teeth, others may enjoy licking a partner’s teeth, or even become excited by tooth extraction. For some odontophiles, there may be connections with other kinks listed on this page, such as biting and vampire fetishes. Additionally, dental fetishism falls under the broader category of medical fetishes. For these individuals, the focus may be less on the teeth themselves and more on the feeling of vulnerability that comes with sitting in a dentist’s chair, mouth open wide, and being exposed to various dental tools.
18. Tongue Fetish
Oh, the tongue! So pink, so playful, and oh-so-fun for all kinds of kisses and licks. Tongue enthusiasts might have their favorites when it comes to size and shape. A tongue fetish? It could mean loving a partner’s tongue dance or watching it tease a nipple – it’s all about the fun! I definitely have my favorite spots for my partner’s tongue! Read: Tongue Fetish: 8 Kinky Tongue Play Ideas
Body Related Fetishes
Below on our fetish list are kinks that have to do with the human body, but aren’t about a specific body part as with the partialism fetishes listed above.
19. Biting Fetish (odaxelagnia)
This is the fun-loving crowd who gets a kick out of playful “love-bites,” which can be a cheeky part of S&M (sadomasochism). The thrill of all this nibbling can lead to delightful sensations and giggles. When the biting game escalates beyond gentle nibbles and there’s a chance to go a bit wild, it’s time to sprinkle in some safety tips for extra fun!
20. Breeding Fetish
Getting pregnant and having babies is a familiar adventure for many, but for some, the idea of pregnancy sparks a playful kink! While most folks might get a bit anxious about the possibility of a baby on board, these fun-loving individuals find excitement in the thrill of it all. Some dive into the steamy escapade of trying without a safety net, while others prefer to keep things safe and snazzy with some role-play. And let’s not forget those who adore the wonders of pregnancy itself and can’t get enough of the beautiful changes in a mother’s body! To learn more read our Breeding Fetish Facts article.
21. Human Furniture Fetish (forniphilia)
If the thought of transforming into a lively coffee table, quirky shelf, or even a delightful stool tickles your fancy, you might just be a forniphile! Dive into these fun and quirky human furniture snapshots by Alva Bernadine. Forniphilia can range from playful bondage, cheeky nudity, and delightful submission to a good old-fashioned romp in BDSM – or maybe none at all! The real charm of this playful kink lies in the fun of being embraced as an object of fascination. Here are some ideas for forniphiles and more information about the human furniture fetish.
22. Medical Fetish
Medical fetish is a fun and exciting realm that comes in all sorts of playful shapes and sizes! Typically, this kink dances around the thrilling situations, curious instruments, fascinating examinations, and whimsical environments tied to medical treatment. Think about specific delights like enema adventure, cast wonder, temperature-taking antics, anesthesia thrills, and the enchanting allure of medical masks and uniforms! Those with this playful fascination may love to dive into role-playing as the zany doctor or playful patient. (Check out these fun BDSM medical play ideas!) While some cheeky medical role-play or fantasies might sizzle with the promise of invasive exams, it’s essential to note that many medical fetish fans find joy outside of explicitly naughty scenarios.
23. Piercing Fetish (stigmatophilia)
If someone has a piercing fetish, they might find all the shiny bling on themselves or others quite exhilarating! The thrill of the needle and the art of piercing can add a delightful dash of excitement to their playtime. With piercings being all the rage these days, there are countless fun and flirty ways this kink can come to life! And let’s not forget, stigmatophilia adds a cheeky twist, celebrating not just piercings but also tattoos – a double dose of fabulous body art! Read: Tattoo and Piercing Fetish.
24. Pregnancy Fetish (maiesiophilia)
Pregnancy can be such a delightful time, filled with charm and allure! That adorable round belly, the luscious curves, and the magical air of nurturing all add to the excitement. But it’s not just about those lovely physical changes. For some, the playful thoughts of baby-making, nurturing little ones, and the grand adventure of childbirth spark a whirlwind of fascination and joy! A pregnant woman is like a living treasure chest, brimming with life and the wonders of nature. This playful curiosity about pregnancy taps into our deepest instincts, making every moment feel wonderfully special! Do you have a pregnancy fetish? For tips and ideas read How to Indulge Your Pregnancy Kink.
25. Smoking Fetish (capnolagnia)
Oh, the delightful world of smoking fetishes! Just picture someone playfully slipping a cigarette between their lips, the whimsical dance of smoke swirling around like a cheeky little cloud! It’s no wonder some folks find themselves utterly captivated by the act of smoking. These fun-loving enthusiasts get a thrill from watching others puff away or even indulging in the habit themselves! Whether it’s a fascination with cigar aficionados or a soft spot for pipe smokers, there’s a lot of playful passion in the air. Here at Ms. Kristy’s, one reader lets us in on their fun-filled Smoking Fetish: A Capnolagnia Confession!
26. Tattoo Fetish (stigmatophilia)
Tattoos can be a total turn-on! Those who get butterflies in their stomach at the sight of ink can thank stigmatophilia, which also gives a wink to piercings and other fun body mods. If you have a tattoo kink, it might even come with a bit of a thrill—after all, getting tatted can sting a little! But most folks are all about those irresistible tattooed partners, and let’s face it, a little ink can spice things up! With so many tattooed cuties around, tattoo fetishists are definitely in luck!
Bodily Fluid Fetishes (Hygrophilia)
27. Crying Fetish (dacryphilia)
For those with a playful side, tears can be more than just sad—they can be surprisingly fun! Watching someone tear up or hearing those sniffles can spark a little thrill, no matter the cause. In the world of BDSM, a Dom who enjoys dacryphilia can easily draw out those watery eyes from their willing submissive. And let’s be honest, sometimes you don’t need a whole scenario; just witnessing your partner tear up during a heartfelt moment or while watching a tear-jerker can be quite the turn-on! Healthline has some great insights to share on this playful kink!
28. Lactation Fetish (lactophilia)
Lactophilia is all about the playful fascination with a lady’s lovely lactating breasts, the fun of wanting to dip into breastfeeding, or the cheeky yearning to join in some playful activities with a pregnant or lactating woman. This delightful kink can become the heart of an Adult Breastfeeding Relationship or an Adult Baby Relationship, as the thrill of erotic lactation pairs wonderfully with the sweet vibes of infantilism! Curious? See 4 Types of Lactation Fetish. The lactation kink is generally a fetish for men, but there are women with lactation kinks too.
Clothing, Costume, and Fabric Fetishes
29. Cosplay Kink
While being a cosplayer isn’t exactly the same as being all about the naughty, let’s be real: some folks totally find dressing up super exciting! There’s just something magical about the make-up and all the fun that goes into crafting an epic costume. And hey, those outfits can definitely be a thrill – feeling fabulous in the fabric can be a real mood booster! Whether it’s a playful kink or just pure fun, there are tons of jaw-droppingly sexy cosplay designs out there. The moment it becomes a full-on obsession? That’s when the sparks really fly, and you can only get your groove on in your favorite character getup or alongside a partner equally dressed to impress! New to cosplay? See Cosplay for Kinky People.
30. Fur Fetish
Oh-so-fluffy, oh-so-fancy, oh-so-comfy and snug! When it comes to fur, the real deal is simply unbeatable, especially for those with a furry passion! Much of the fun around a fur fetish is tied to that delicious thrill of fur coats in particular. A gal strutting in furs is like a walking fairy tale, but for many, it’s the soft, luscious fur that really gets the excitement buzzing!
31. High Heel Fetish
High heels have been long been associated with sex, and it’s not surprising why. High heels subtly change the wearer’s posture to a more “butt out” and “tits up” look, by pushing the lower back and chest forward. Heels are also associated with power and dominance, and femininity at the same time. This makes heels the shoe of choice for femdoms and dominatrixes, the type of women that many a heel fetishist desires. For some with a high-heel kink, the wearer isn’t even part of the equation. A stiletto shoe on its own may be enough to elicit sexual arousal. Others have this kink in conjunction with a foot fetish, and a heel dangling from a lady’s sexy toes may be the height of ecstasy.
32. Latex Fetish
Latex is a super fun, cozy fabric that highlights all the right curves! It’s the perfect pick for a range of playful outfits, from snug hoods to flirty gloves and sassy stockings. When latex steps into the spotlight, be it in fabulous fashion or cheeky accessories, it ignites a thrill of excitement—voilà, you’ve uncovered a delightful latex fetish!
33. Leather Fetish
Leather is like the ultimate VIP of materials for those who adore it! Its scent is oh-so-recognizable, and the textures can range from buttery smooth to delightfully fuzzy, just like your favorite suede sweater. Unlike those wannabe substitutes like PVC, real leather is like a breath of fresh air and gets cozier with every wear – it’s practically begging to be snuggled into! Think of all those iconic pieces: sleek jackets, fabulous Italian heels, and yes, even dad’s trusty belt! The love for leather is a classic affair and definitely ranks high on our list of exciting kinks! Learn more about it in our article, Leather Fetish Explained.
34. Panty Fetish
A panty fetish is a kink for women’s underwear, and preferences can vary widely. Some panty fetishists love the exposure offered by a G-string or thong panties, and others prefer full-bottom panties and bikini-style underwear. Panty sniffing, panty collecting, crossdressing with panties, and even buying dirty panties off the internet are all possible pastimes of a panty lover. If this is your kink, you might want to check out 4 Ways to Enjoy Your Used Panty Fetish.
35. Pantyhose Fetish
A fabulous pair of pantyhose works magic for your legs, adding glamour and confidence that transform even the simplest outfit! Who can resist the appeal of silky, snug nylons? They elevate the beauty of your legs, giving them a sleek, shiny finish that’s hard to ignore. The soft, luxurious feel and the way they embrace your curves can be enchanting! For many, sliding into pantyhose is stepping into a world where charm meets touch. Read our popular article, All You Need to Know about the Pantyhose Fetish.
Ladies often jest about having a shoe obsession, but let’s be real—it’s all about that thrill of hunting down the perfect pair to fill up those closets! However, a true shoe fetish takes things to a whole new playground. Whether it’s the alluring charm of high heels or the captivating nature of boots, this kink knows no bounds! Those enchanted by this passion might find themselves giddy just gazing at shoes, caressing them, inhaling their scent, or even reveling in the joy of wearing them.
37. Spandex Fetish
Spandex is a versatile fabric that became popular in the ’80s alongside the rise of workout videos. This stretchy material conforms to the body and has a shiny finish. Unlike latex, spandex is breathable and blends well with casual outfits. Its appeal isn’t just in the fabric itself; it’s also about the confidence of those who wear it, from dancers to swimmers, athletes, and performers.
38. Stocking Fetish
I see the stockings fetish as an extension of the pantyhose fetish, but with a few bonuses. In addition to that silky look and feel, there are things like garters and garter belts that add to the sex appeal. The wearer can keep these details hidden, or just slightly peeking out from under their clothing which adds to the allure and anticipation. There’s also something about seeing the top of a pair of stockings on a woman’s legs, as they accentuate the length of her legs but stop just a few inches below her panties.
Zentai suits are like a second skin, made from stretchy spandex that hugs your curves! Slip into one, and you become a mysterious figure of fun. Remember, zentai suits differ from morph suits. While both are great for costumes and sports events, morph suits are often seen on the sidelines or for green screen fun. Originating from Japan, the zentai craze celebrates the thrilling sensations of wearing one, with a playful twist. Embrace your inner superhero or stylish enigma! Learn more about the Zentai Suit Fetish.
Object Fetishes (Objectophilia)
40. Balloon Fetish
People with a balloon fetish, known as “looners,” find joy in everything balloons offer! For some, spotting a cheerful balloon sparks excitement, while others enjoy the whimsical sounds of inflating, deflating, or bursting balloons. In the balloon-loving community, you’ll find “poppers” who thrill at the sound of a bursting balloon, and “non-poppers” who simply enjoy their colorful presence. The variety of pursuits is as diverse as the happiness they bring! Learn more about balloon kink: Balloon Fetish for Looners.
41. Car Fetish (mechanophilia)
Cars have become symbols of thrill in pop culture, appearing in music videos that showcase their power and speed. For some, the love for vehicles takes a delightful twist! Enter mechanophilia—a quirky attraction to cars, motorcycles, airplanes, and other metallic marvels. This fascination can lead to special connections and playful antics with these machines. While it may raise eyebrows, it reflects the diverse landscape of human attractions and desires. If this is intriguing, see our article on car fetishes and kinks to learn more about mechanophilia and other car kinks such as the car crash fetish and a fetish for speed.
Food enthusiasts often find excitement in the delightful intersection of culinary delights and playful antics! From whimsical uses of phallic-shaped veggies to the limitless fun with food, the options are practically endless. Imagine nibbling on treats straight off a partner or indulging in a playful food fight where everyone gets a little messy! Sometimes, it’s all about the texture and shape of the food that adds that extra spark. Plus, there are many delightful overlaps with other fun kinks such as feederism, and let’s not forget the sensational world of sploshing, wet and messy antics, or my absolute favorite—cake sitting! Looking for ideas? See 7 Foods for Sex.
A nebulophile simply can’t resist the allure of smoke and fog! Imagine taking a romantic stroll through a thick, dreamy fog—talk about an enchanting experience! But when those foggy days decide to play hard to get, fear not! Dry ice swoops in as a sly little trickster to deliver the foggy vibes we crave. Just picture the way that magical haze swirls and dances around, wrapping itself around everyone like a fluffy, misty hug. Isn’t that just delightful?
44. Mannequin Fetish (agalmatophilia)
Agalmatophilia is a playful twist on object love, where some develop an intriguing fascination with mannequins, statues, or dolls. Those with a crush on these figures may enjoy daydreaming about encounters or engaging in playful antics. Some adventurous souls might even role-play as a statue or transform their partner into a living work of art. This delightful kink could be a reason why sex dolls have gained popularity recently! Read: Beyond Human: Fetish Outside the Human Paradigm
45. Mirror Fetish (katoptronophilia)
Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s ready for some playful fun? Katoptroonophiles love peeping into mirrors during sexy times, whether it’s steamy sessions of self-love or some cheeky escapades! For them, ordinary sex might just feel a tad dull without a shiny reflection nearby. Many will jazz up their homes with mirrors galore, and when they hit the road, it’s all about that honeymoon suite with the fabulous mirrored ceiling! Sounds like a blast, right? You don’t need to be a full-on fetishist to enjoy a little mirror magic! Here are 4 Ways to Use Mirrors in the Bedroom.
46. Religious Object Fetish (hierophilia)
Hierophilia is all about those cheeky fantasies and the thrill of getting a little frisky with religious images and rituals! Think of sacred objects and a playful romp in a church setting—how divine! These “holy thrill-seekers” might just be reacting to a bit of repressed desire, spiced up with a dash of guilt and a sprinkle of mischief!
For some, it’s the delightfully slippery feel of a sleeping bag that sparks their playful energy, but this kink has more layers than just the fabric. Many folks find that being snugly wrapped up with limited wiggle room can be a total thrill, and a sleeping bag often does the trick! Picture a fun twist on modern mummification in the great outdoors. The sleeping bag fetish is so popular that there’s a whole range of bondage sleeping bags and whimsical BDSM sacks out there for anyone seeking a touch more adventure!
48. Stuffed Animal Fetish (plushophilia)
While I may not be a plushie enthusiast, I totally get the charm of having a special connection with a cuddly companion. For those who dive into this delightful world, their plushie sure knows how to steal the show and spark joy! Some adventurous souls might even tweak their toys a bit, but I’ll let the pros handle those details. Plushophilia is a fetish for stuffed animals, and for these people, there is no human who can come close to turning them on as much as their favorite plushie. Some like to add a hole to their plush stuffed animal for penetration, or simply rub themselves with the soft exterior.
Those with a tentacle crush might find themselves irresistibly charmed by the playful wiggles of a tentacled friend, real or imagined! Just picture those tentacles playfully wrapping around them, sparking giggles of delight and the excitement of a fun, adventurous escapade that could explore all sorts of imaginative twists and turns! A common outlet or exploration of this kink occurs in hentai tentacle porn which you can read more about here: Tentacle Porn 101.
50. Tree Fetish (dendrophilia)
Dendrophilia is like having a crush on trees — but it’s way more than just a casual hug on a tree! These tree enthusiasts admire their oak and pine pals for their impressive, strong vibes. When it comes to this playful passion, some tree lovers may even get a little frisky with the bark and branches! Others might just prefer to get cozy in the forest, surrounded by the trees that tickle their fancy. And speaking of wood, there’s also xylophilia — where folks find joy in wood itself, which could totally add another fun layer! Whether it’s a romp on the polished dining table or a playful embrace with a sturdy trunk, there’s plenty of fun to be had!
Water enthusiasts are captivated by the allure of aquatic intimacy, whether through the thrill of swimming in open waters or the exploration of underwater encounters. For some, this fascination goes beyond personal interactions; it encompasses the essence of water itself. Showers with their rhythmic flow, bathtubs as serene sanctuaries, and the raw power of floods can evoke a unique arousal, igniting the imagination. This connection with water evokes feelings of freedom and bliss, encouraging a deeper understanding of desires and the elemental nature of this vital source.
People & Role-Play Fetishes
52. Clown Fetish (coulrophilia)
Wow, can you believe it? Some folks are totally into clowns and get a kick out of playful characters like jesters and mimes! After diving into a bunch of cheeky tales about “sex clowns,” it turns out there are all sorts of whimsical reasons behind this clown-loving kink. For many, it’s all about that fun make-up; the thrill of putting it on and the way it playfully hides who they are! Some people adore the lighthearted antics of clowns, while others enjoy the silly humiliation of a clown chuckling at your shenanigans. And don’t forget the fabulous costumes! Many find that their passion for clowns started in their childhood, but just like all our fun kinks, there’s no one-size-fits-all story here! Learn more about coulrophilia in our article Coulrophilia: Clown Fetish Fun.
53. Cuckold Fetish
A cuckold takes pleasure in knowing that his partner is being intimate with others. He supports his wife as she enjoys experiences with a “bull” while he remains at home. In some cases, she may even interact with another man in front of him. This dynamic allows the cuckold to feel a mix of submission and a dash of embarrassment, which contributes to the overall experience. Indeed, the cuckold fetish is so popular and prevalent that you can even find dedicated cuckold dating sites.
54. Granny Fetish (gerontophilia)
The granny or grandma fetish is all about a sexual attraction to those fabulous older folks! Gerontophiles might have had some cheeky early experiences with significantly older partners, shaping their quirky desires. Plus, let’s not forget the ever-increasing stash of granny-themed fun in the adult world, adding a dash of spice to this delightful kink! We’ve written about gerontophilia and the granny fetish,
55. Giant Fetish (macrophilia)
Macrophilia is a delightfully whimsical kink that dances around the enchanting fantasy of giants, especially giantesses, capturing the imagination of many. The thrill comes from picturing a woman who looms large over her partner, making him feel like a tiny toy in her hands. This playful power dynamic often sees the lady taking charge, and the daydreams even flirt with the idea of being playfully gobbled up by such a majestic figure. For fans of this delightful fascination, the 1958 cult classic “Attack of the 50 Foot Woman” is sure to be a fun cinematic ride, possibly sparking interest in more adventurers eager to explore this quirky fetish! Read more about the giantess fetish in our article What Kind of Kink Is Macrophilia?
56. Human Pet Fetish
Some folks find pure joy in tapping into their wild side, playfully crawling on all fours with a fun collar around their neck. The human pet joyfully surrenders to their playful master, looking to them for tasty treats served right on the floor. This delightful game is all about the warm cuddles and playful attention that the owner showers upon their beloved pet. Pet play, a whimsical form of animal roleplay, dances around the exciting themes of dominance and submission. Learn more about Slaves vs Pets.
57. Mommy Fetish
At first glance, you might think a mom fetish is just about the playful antics of adult baby role-play and diaper lovers. Sure, that can be part of the fun, but a lot of mom fetishes go beyond infantilism. Just look at the allure of MILFs or the excitement surrounding pregnancy and lactation kinks! Many mommy fetishists love to imagine a strong, nurturing woman, or MomDom, who lovingly dotes on them and spanks them playfully – think of it as a role reversal of the classic Daddy/little girl dynamic. See our article entitled 5 Kinds of Mommy Fetishes and Kinks.
58. Monster Fetish (teratophilia)
Monsterophilia is an enchanting and quirky kink that gleefully embraces the charm of the bizarre! It’s all about a fascination with fantastical creatures and celebrating diverse looks and delightful quirks. This whimsical interest invites folks to dive into their desires with a wink and a smile, all while playfully challenging the norm. Wikipedia lists some of the monsters that a teratophile might have a fetish for, including Big Foot.
59. Santa Fetish (santaphilia)
Santa Claus, the jolly giant in red! Imagine a big, cheerful guy with a bushy beard, spreading joy and gifts everywhere. Maybe, inspired by childhood dreams, a Santa enthusiast might daydream about being on the ‘naughty’ list and squealing with delight about a playful “Santa spank,” or cozily perched on Santa’s knee, sharing secret wishes! Santa embodies that perfect mix of strength and warmth, making him the ultimate festive hero. It’s no surprise that Santaphiles just can’t wait to hear they’ve been a ‘good boy’ or girl this year! But hey, Santa isn’t real, so if this is your girlfriend’s kink then check out 4 Ways to Satisfy Her Santa Fetish.
60. Vampire Fetish
The vampire fetish is like a thrilling adventure that can include all sorts of fun behaviors, fabulous outfits, and enticing vampire “play.” When it comes to playtime, the vampire kink can be one of the more dangerous kinks, especially if blood play is part of the game—just imagine the excitement! So, what is it about this seductive vampire allure that sets hearts racing? Is it the delicious anticipation of a vampire’s bite, the dreamy idea of living forever, an enthusiasm for tasty fluids, or the delightfully gothic wardrobe choices? It definitely inspires some wickedly good role-play!
61. Voyeurism
Oh la la! Isn’t it fascinating how some folks get a thrill from sneaking a peek at others when they’re all uncovered, in the process of getting dressed, or having a bit of fun? It’s all fun and games until someone forgets to check their surroundings! When this playful curiosity starts to cause a bit of trouble or includes those who haven’t given the green light, it can become a bit of a sticky situation. The secret sauce of voyeurism is that the star of the show has no clue they’re being watched! But hey, exploring those cheeky fantasies can be done in a fun way that keeps everything above board! See our Tips for Voyeurism with Consent.
Sensation Fetishes
62. Bondage Fetish
Bondage is a playful and exciting adventure within the BDSM community! Those who enjoy a bondage fetish might find that a little restraint is the secret ingredient to their sexual satisfaction. Whether they’re the ones getting tied up or the creative force behind the binding, there’s fun to be had on both sides! Bondage can be an exhilarating mix of experiences, from cozy mummification and thrilling suspension bondage to the artsy beauty of shibari rope play, or even the snug embrace of sleep sacks, sleeping bags, duct tape, and silky scarves. The world of bondage is full of surprises, with enthusiasts often exploring all kinds of playful preferences! For those interested in meeting bondage partners, match.mskristys.com.
63. Cold Fetish (psychrophilia)
In the wild world of biology, a psychrophile is like a chilly little champion that loves to thrive in the frosty embrace of low temperatures! Now, shifting gears to the playful side of things, psychrophilia is when someone gets a kick out of the cold—whether it’s feeling frosty themselves or getting a giggle from watching others shiver! Imagine enjoying some steamy moments outdoors in the crisp air or having some icy fun with ice play—how cool is that? Winter with its snow and icicles may seem idyllic, but here we present you with some ideas of cold fetish play year-round: Cold Temperature Play for a Hot Summer.
64. Claustrophilia Fetish
For many, the idea of squeezing into a snug little spot might seem a bit nerve-wracking. But for those who enjoy the quirky thrill of claustrophilia, it’s like stepping into a cozy little adventure! Whether it’s the fun of getting zipped up in a sleeping bag, fitting snugly in a box, or perhaps a playful tumble into the trunk of a car, the sense of cozy confinement is what makes this fascination so delightful. Whether flying solo or enjoying it with a partner, claustrophilia offers a whimsical dance of playful submission, the charm of being all wrapped up, and the delightful impact it can have on your breath! Learn more about claustrophila.
65. Dirty Fetish (salirophilia)
This playful kink invites you to embrace a delightful mess! Imagine turning a polished look into a fun, disheveled masterpiece by playfully ripping clothes, tousling hair, smudging makeup, or even splattering fun goopy substances. The thrill comes from transforming a stunning individual into a charmingly chaotic version of themselves, making it an exhilarating adventure for those who find joy in this whimsical twist. Related fun could include indulging in wet and messy play!
A gagging fetish is like a thrilling adventure where someone, often a lady, playfully teases her partner’s cock as it tickles her throat, or explores those delightful fingertips. This playful escapade pops up a lot in deep-throat films, and who knows, maybe that’s where some guys’ fascination starts! What makes this fun for some fellas? Perhaps it’s the challenge of a deep dive as she playfully struggles to embrace it all, the delightful splash of saliva, and the cheeky possibility of a little gagging, all topped with a sprinkle of playful humiliation and sweet submission. Read Gagging Fetish: A Woman’s Perspective.
Hypnotic fun time, also known as “hypnokink,” is all about turning up the heat with a dash of hypnotic magic! It’s like a playful twist on seduction, where hypnosis adds a delicious layer to sexual vibes, steamy suggestions, and playful role-playing! But wait, there’s more – with hypnosis fetishism, the act of hypnotizing becomes the ultimate thrill. Imagine the joy of being mesmerized, entranced, or even just watching as others drift into blissful hypnosis. It’s a bit like mind control but with an extra sprinkle of excitement! The enchanted participant happily surrenders control, letting their hypnotist take the reins, which is precisely the fun of it all. In the world of BDSM, submissives with a taste for hypnokink might dream of a teasing dom who can hypnotize them (real or fantasy, it’s all a good time) and invite them to dive into whimsical, naughty adventures! Here is our article about Hypnosis Fetish and Hypnokink, and an interesting post at Narratively by a hypnosis fetishist.
Mummification is like an exciting game of wrap and roll! It’s all about playful confinement and submission, making you feel snug as a bug while you surrender to the whims of a dominant. You can get creative with materials—think plastic wrap, colorful bondage tape, soft bandages, or even fun plaster! Learn more: Mummification Bondage Techniques and Safety
69. Spanking Fetish
Spanking is a fun and flirty form of playful impact that many couples enjoy, even if they lean towards the “vanilla” side of things. It can range from gentle little taps on a cute bottom to a more spirited swat, and toys like paddles or riding crops can add to the excitement! If you find that your sexy time feels incomplete without a good spanking, you might just be dipping your toes into fetish territory. Thankfully, it’s usually a breeze to find partners who are up for a little spank-tastic fun, unlike those who might have more unique kinks! For safety’s sake, consider reading our Spanking Fetish: How to Give a Kinky Spanking.
70. Tickle Fetish (knismolagnia)
Tickle time! Knismolagnia is all about the delightful fun of tickling, with plenty of playful twists. For instance, pteronphilia is when feathers bring on those ticklish giggles, while titillagnia is all about the joy of tickling your friends. Whether you’re the tickler or the ticklee, this playful fetish dances around sensations, the thrill of control versus delightful helplessness, and endless laughter. And here’s a fun fact: a tickle fetish doesn’t always have to be steamy; you can totally have a blast fully clothed and still reach peak pleasure! Looking for some giggly inspiration? Dive into the thrill of being tied up and at the mercy of a feather, or flip the script and revel in the power of making your partner squeal with laughter. Experiment with various textures, speeds, and sensitive spots to discover what tickles your fancy! See Tickle Fetish for Kink Lovers and Tia’s Tickle Torture Tips.
71. Trample Fetish
Trample fetish is like a playful game of stepping on a human, and it can be oh-so-fun with a little consent and care! Those who dream of being a human doormat might just have a flair for masochism or a love for the delightful submission that comes with being trodden on. Craving a little trample time for some spicy pleasure can be all about that cheeky erotic humiliation, a pinch of pain, and surrendering to a delightful dominant. Who knows, it might even blend in with other exciting kinks like cock and ball torture (CBT), foot fetish whimsy, or the giant rush of macrophilia, where the thrill comes from being crushed or playfully stepped on by a larger-than-life lady!
72. Wet and Messy Fetish (WAM)
WAM enthusiasts can have a blast with all sorts of wonderfully gooey goodies, from fluffy shaving cream to squishy mud, creamy whipped cream to zany pea soup! The thrill of this wet and messy fun comes from the delightful sensations of temperature and texture sliding on your skin, plus the cheeky hint of humiliation that some find utterly exciting. For others, it’s all about the vibrant visuals or just the sheer joy of splashing around. The sky is the limit for your creativity!
