A Woman Owned & Operated, Women Only Social Club.
Not your mother’s women’s club!
Now that Women are taking the leadership role at home, at work and in the bedroom, Ms.Kristys is a private club focused on the development of personal skills and confidence for women interested in the proper Introduction, Education, Demonstration, and Participation in the Dominatrix and Submissive Lifestyle.
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Ms.Kristy’s is a safe & secure place for women of all ages, colors, shapes, and sizes to learn about and explore their sexuality in a positive & supportive process through self paced and instructor led online courses, taking part in group discussions, access to quality self care pleasure products and to socialize in person at women only Ms. Kristy’s clubhouses to create a sisterhood that builds confidence in the classroom, boardroom and bedroom!
Using a unique approach to BDSM or what many call Light BDSM, Ms.Kristy’s helps women build confidence and to feel comfortable in any power exchange by teaching ways to be an effective submissive and dominant.
What is BDSM?
BDSM is an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. It refers to a range of erotic practices involving consensual power exchange, physical restraint, pleasure and pain. However, not everyone who engages in BDSM practices is interested in the more extreme aspects of the lifestyle. Communication is essential in BDSM, and partners should establish clear boundaries and safe words before engaging in any activity. All sex should be safe sex, but with heavy BDSM, there’s the extra added danger factor that makes safety even more essential.
The BDSM community is under-served when it comes to catering to a woman's perspective and style with most dungeons or play areas stereotypically being dark rooms, all things black, hadcore scenes run by men, open only on weekend nights with few week night exceptions. Because most dungeons / play areas are open for limited hours and maybe run by volunteers, beginners in their journey don't have an opportunity to learn and confidently play with others outside of the weekend evening parties or sessions. This environment is Not inviting to first time single women interested in learning and possibly participating.
Light BDSM is a type of BDSM that is less intense, focuses more on playful & sensual exploration of power dynamics or roleplay and is often used as a way to spice up a couple’s sex life while deepening the connection between partners.
As a rule of thumb, Light BDSM tends to cover activities that do not cause pain, or much pain, and leave little to no marks, or in the case of behaviors, are not considered harsh, another subjective value. Light spankings, holding wrists down, minimal bondage, sensuality plays are common among those actions that are considered mild by many. Other actions, say a flogging, might be mild by the standards of those who engage in more intense plays such as hot wax or electroplay, but extreme to someone who’s never done such a thing.
Light BDSM involves introductory activities that focus on building trust and exploring boundaries without intense physical or emotional stress. This can include:
– Light bondage (e.g., using scarves or soft cuffs)
– Sensory play (e.g., blindfolding, feather tickling)
– Gentle spanking
– Role-playing with clear boundaries
– Simple power dynamics (e.g., basic commands)
The rule of thumb will do you well enough for casual conversation and discussion, although be aware that you can run into those whose definitions are different. However, if you are ever in negotiations for playing with someone, never assume. Always make sure they describe precisely what they mean by “light” and you give exactly what you mean by it. Make sure you are on the same page.
It is important to note that while light BDSM can be an enjoyable and fulfilling experience for many people, it is not for everyone. Consent is crucial in any BDSM practice, and it is essential to respect the boundaries of your partner. Engaging in any BDSM activity should always be done with care and caution, and partners should be willing to stop or adjust the activity if necessary.
It’s all about creating a safe, consensual environment to explore new sensations and dynamics.
Ms.Kristy’s takes a professional and feminine approach to Light BDSM with a softer, more sensual presentation. Consistency in coursework and quality equipment provided in a holistic approach with in person demonstration and play with certified participants from a transparent group platform.
Educate | Demonstrate | Participate
Ms.Kristy’s Clubhouse is a feminine and glamorous space where women can come together to learn about and develop their sexuality without feeling intimidated or judged by men. Accessible to all members 12 hours a day, 5 days a week noon to midnight closed Monday and Tuesday.
Ms. Kristy’s has created a learning & experience path based on informative online courses and in-person one on one and group demonstrations. The in person clubhouse experiences are reserved for members that have completed the required introduction coursework provided by our online learning portal.
The Ms.Kristys online experience is designed to be an all inclusive platform for women to safely introduce, educate, demonstrate and participate as both Dominatrix and Submissive in the Light BDSM Lifestyle.
